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      02-19-2020, 12:08 PM   #5743
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Quite often. Most are damaged in some, or sadly, many ways. On the flip side, I've met quite a few that are super charming and genuinely good people. The problem, as pennsiveguy stated, is that most are accustomed to getting everything they want by batting their eyes and shaking their butts. It's sometimes hilarious to observe what happens when they don't get their ways and it is often not pretty.

The other side of this is that some are so pretty that they NEVER have guys talk to them and are quite lonely. These are the ones you see with very average looking bfs or s/os. That guy was the first that was nice to her or contacted her in quite some time.

I love beautiful women, I'm just not a fool about it. I can always walk away. Some men can't.
In my 20s and 30s I did relish the challenge of competing for the affections of a spectacular woman. But at some point I figured out the prize wasn't worth the fight and the ROI was really iffy, so I left the game. I focused on my career and my friendships. I'm happy with that call.
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In my 20s and 30s I did relish the challenge of competing for the affections of a spectacular woman. But at some point I figured out the prize wasn't worth the fight and the ROI was really iffy, so I left the game. I focused on my career and my friendships. I'm happy with that call.
I made that call after realizing I wasn't really getting what I wanted out of the dating scene, I'd say it's been a nice ride so far (though a girlfriend wouldn't suck).

However I've spoiled myself over the years and I've came to a point where I don't settle especially if I can't see myself building up on it. Think starting in a smaller place to improve my career to hop on to the big boys.

Now I've def been used by 1-2 women in the past, but I'm not the revenge type especially when the new girl has no play in this, hence I'm single. I can't see myself settling for anyone just to have a girlfriend, and kinda selfishly i don't see anything I can gain from having a girl around just so I have a girl around
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Do you mind expounding on this? If you don't, no sweat. I'm in a situation that may be similar and could use some insight.
We got back in touch 5 years ago, about 12 years after splitting up and having had no contact in the interim. Out of the blue, she wrote me a long and heartfelt email, apologizing for her share of the shit we put each other through.

She told how she had sought professional help soon after we split, which is what I should have done. The email detailed some of the challenges she'd been diagnosed with by her therapists - OCD, Autism Spectrum Disorder, and Generalize Anxiety Disorder.

That's some major stuff that's going to get in the way of any relationship. It took some major guts and integrity and compassion to send me that email. We've been great friends ever since.

I reciprocated and fessed up to my share of our shit-show. I was a full-blown functional alcoholic at the time. I worked 50 hours a week at a pressure-cooker job, carried 8 - 12 credits of undergraduate math and Computer Science classes, smoked 2 packs of Marlboros a day and drank like my guts were on fire. I put our marriage last, after everything.

She went on to a second marriage and 3 cute kids and a very successful career in a big company. I consider her friendship to be one of the great gifts of my life, regardless of our incompatibility as a couple.
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However I've spoiled myself over the years
over the years? wtf aren't you like 22?
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over the years? wtf aren't you like 22?
LOL - I've got underwear older than that.
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over the years? wtf aren't you like 22?
Lol Turkish Pickle are you really 22 or is that a joke? Thought you were older haha
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LOL - I've got underwear older than that.
Socks too!
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LOL - I've got underwear older than that.
Socks too!
I'm usually ever on the desktop site but nice lineup of cars you got there my man!

How's the i8 holding up?
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Socks too!
And a used condom that I pressed in my scrapbook.
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I'm usually ever on the desktop site but nice lineup of cars you got there my man!

How's the i8 holding up?
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And a used condom that I pressed in my scrapbook.
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Question for all.

How many times have you met up with a 9 or 10 who had a horrible personality? And if so did you try to pursue it still just because she is hot or did you just end it at that point?
There was this 9.5, we met, chat, hat dinner, I got the lobster bisque, we went home, yadayadayada and never heard from her again...
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I got a text from someone I was seeing a few months back, ended up ghosting, okay whatever.

I wake up today to say she left town for good? Was I supposed to be jealous that she moved on from this college town after she graduated a year and a half ago? I'm genuinely confused so I just didn't reply lol
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I got a text from someone I was seeing a few months back, ended up ghosting, okay whatever.

I wake up today to say she left town for good? Was I supposed to be jealous that she moved on from this college town after she graduated a year and a half ago? I'm genuinely confused so I just didn't reply lol
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Question for all.

How many times have you met up with a 9 or 10 who had a horrible personality? And if so did you try to pursue it still just because she is hot or did you just end it at that point?
There was this 9.5, we met, chat, hat dinner, I got the lobster bisque, we went home, yadayadayada and never heard from her again...
How were the conversations though? Did you feel like you'd see her again?
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How were the conversations though? Did you feel like you'd see her again?
Oh, the bisque was fine, conversation turned more quickly into 'that' direction and the end of the evening was clear. We also determined that we're probably not made for each other but no reason to enjoy each others attraction.
All in all uncomplicated, could have happened more often
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I've been talking to a girl who has 38Gs. Will send redacted pictures at some point.
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Holy!!! Don't think I have ever seen some Gs lol. Pics ASAP brother, before u suffocate in them.
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There was this 9.5, we met, chat, hat dinner, I got the lobster bisque, we went home, yadayadayada and never heard from her again...
You got the lobster bisque, and she got the wurst.
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Wowzer. I dated a woman who was a 42FFF, and this was after a reduction. The only bummer when they're that big, is that you can only play with 'em one at a time.
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