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Originally Posted by pennsiveguy
In my 20s and 30s I did relish the challenge of competing for the affections of a spectacular woman. But at some point I figured out the prize wasn't worth the fight and the ROI was really iffy, so I left the game. I focused on my career and my friendships. I'm happy with that call.
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I made that call after realizing I wasn't really getting what I wanted out of the dating scene, I'd say it's been a nice ride so far (though a girlfriend wouldn't suck).
However I've spoiled myself over the years and I've came to a point where I don't settle especially if I can't see myself building up on it. Think starting in a smaller place to improve my career to hop on to the big boys.
Now I've def been used by 1-2 women in the past, but I'm not the revenge type especially when the new girl has no play in this, hence I'm single. I can't see myself settling for anyone just to have a girlfriend, and kinda selfishly i don't see anything I can gain from having a girl around just so I have a girl around
