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Originally Posted by cmyx6go
BUT- then you wouldn't have your kids. One thing changes everything.
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"Our" kids as painful as that is to type. Had I chosen more wisely, I feel it would have broadened their horizons in life. Having a deadbeat mom has severely hurt them in life. Her laziness has been picked up by them. I'm also viewed as a tyrant because I have a nice, clean home, a nice car and work hard for what I have. Rather than being pushed and motivated, they have been coddled and told it's ok, you don't have to: go to school today, make good grades to be be good people, go to work today, pay that bill today, etc. Love my boys more than life itself, but it's hard watching them struggle as young adults due to their mothers influence in their lives.